anger

i know that love is stronger the hate and that there is a saying that says that love and hate are closely allied, which I do not believe. My thought is that anger pushes out love so much more easily that love replaces anger. Anger hurts others more than anything. I am not talking about being angry at yourself. I am talking about when you are angry something didn't happen or you are angry because someone did something. Unless they belligerently are making you mad, i don't think you should get mad. Most of the time people get mad at the accidents or the mistakes or the innocent mishaps or confusion. Why then do people get mad? If someone hurts your feelings, what good is gettting mad at them, other than to say "congradulations, you have made me mad!" It doesn't exactly change their mind on the subject. It might made them feel guilty and sometimes rethink. but not always

Loving

I wonder if people make themselves love. There is such a thing as falling in love, but once you are detached for such an amount of time you feel that need for someone. That's why people date when they are not really looking for a serious placement. People need to feel that.
What about when they don't deserve it? Do people really deserve to fall in love, to be loved? Technically they don't. So what happens if you do? What happens if you dont? How do you know? If you think you love someone but then they don't love you? How does love even start?
I can't even get to the liking part. haha