anger

i know that love is stronger the hate and that there is a saying that says that love and hate are closely allied, which I do not believe. My thought is that anger pushes out love so much more easily that love replaces anger. Anger hurts others more than anything. I am not talking about being angry at yourself. I am talking about when you are angry something didn't happen or you are angry because someone did something. Unless they belligerently are making you mad, i don't think you should get mad. Most of the time people get mad at the accidents or the mistakes or the innocent mishaps or confusion. Why then do people get mad? If someone hurts your feelings, what good is gettting mad at them, other than to say "congradulations, you have made me mad!" It doesn't exactly change their mind on the subject. It might made them feel guilty and sometimes rethink. but not always